I am somehow very bad with dates. Is it because I am not thoughtful enough? Sigh. Well, now I am zooming into a smaller scope of just my family. I do not have too many solutions to offer on remembering dates - except the realization that dates matter. Maybe putting it on the diary at the beginning of the year by spending 4 minutes to think of all dates that we need to remember. Then, entering these dates into our outlook for meeting reminders with a 1 week reminder period. Hey, we are going somewhere as I just thought of this while blogging. Lets see if it works. If any of you daddies out there, have good tips to remember dates, do share. And if there is any inspiration or motivation to remember dates, I just found this blog ring entitled "Does your dad forget your birthday and pisses you off". Lets hope our children join a blogring someday that says instead - Do you have the best dad in the world? Wow, global competition is not only seeping into every industry and workplace but also in the realm of being a good daddy. Its be competitive before its too late call for all of us.
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Saturday, 10 May 2008
Tip 46: Remembering mother's day and all other Dates?
I don't know if dads are generally bad with dates or just me. Fortunately, May 11 is not too difficult to remember since the media is ever so persistent in telling you about this important date. I do not watch TV so much these days, but even when I am out for lunch, you can see banners telling you that Mother's Day is arriving. But, the other problem we daddies face, besides memory loss on important dates, is the need to act before the nick of time. That is, to get that gift you had been thinking of, make that restaurant reservation, buy the ingredients for that meal you had plan on cooking. Well, I guess mummy too would complain that they have to do all this yet, never fail to impress us. So, maybe its time for daddies to buck up. Before more dates enter the picture when we have more kids and more appointments to attend to. We surely can do it by getting organized with dates sooner.
I am somehow very bad with dates. Is it because I am not thoughtful enough? Sigh. Well, now I am zooming into a smaller scope of just my family. I do not have too many solutions to offer on remembering dates - except the realization that dates matter. Maybe putting it on the diary at the beginning of the year by spending 4 minutes to think of all dates that we need to remember. Then, entering these dates into our outlook for meeting reminders with a 1 week reminder period. Hey, we are going somewhere as I just thought of this while blogging. Lets see if it works. If any of you daddies out there, have good tips to remember dates, do share. And if there is any inspiration or motivation to remember dates, I just found this blog ring entitled "Does your dad forget your birthday and pisses you off". Lets hope our children join a blogring someday that says instead - Do you have the best dad in the world? Wow, global competition is not only seeping into every industry and workplace but also in the realm of being a good daddy. Its be competitive before its too late call for all of us.
I am somehow very bad with dates. Is it because I am not thoughtful enough? Sigh. Well, now I am zooming into a smaller scope of just my family. I do not have too many solutions to offer on remembering dates - except the realization that dates matter. Maybe putting it on the diary at the beginning of the year by spending 4 minutes to think of all dates that we need to remember. Then, entering these dates into our outlook for meeting reminders with a 1 week reminder period. Hey, we are going somewhere as I just thought of this while blogging. Lets see if it works. If any of you daddies out there, have good tips to remember dates, do share. And if there is any inspiration or motivation to remember dates, I just found this blog ring entitled "Does your dad forget your birthday and pisses you off". Lets hope our children join a blogring someday that says instead - Do you have the best dad in the world? Wow, global competition is not only seeping into every industry and workplace but also in the realm of being a good daddy. Its be competitive before its too late call for all of us.
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In Kuala Lumpur, the scenario is pretty much the same. The media in all forms would remind all the daddies in the coming mother's day. This year mother's day would be the first for my lovely wife. Both of us were ackward. Nonetheless, is provides me of a different perspective towards life.
A look into my son's eyes would tell me how much his mother mean to him. But deep down in my heart, i have a small feeling that the love for the child have taken away the love i have for my wife. At night i often wonder, does all father experience the same? Is it normal to feel this way? How do we as man manage our emotion? Have the child take the first priority in my life?
Appreciate your views and suggestion on this... Cheers
Thanks for visiting my blog, bonzi.Do leave your blog/email so I know my visitors better. I would be blogging this as a separate tip later but heres a quick reply.
2 things you raised
1. awkwardness between you and your wife.
2. A lesser love felt by you maybe.
Do bear in mind that mummies have lots of changes happening to them and thats the same with daddies too. This was briefly mentioned in one of my tips so it would somewhat explain the awkwardness and the frustrations both feel in the new roles which can diminish the love. Now, love is never a once off action. Its when you love, that you realise the meaning of life better. Its not easy to love and be selfless even to the person we once loved and had strong romantic feelings with. That is why we need to constantly remind ourselves to rekindle the loving and romantic feelings and to give selflessly. The more we give selflessly, the recipient will know that its love and not from the selfish heart. And if a person does not appreciate selfless giving, then the person is a fool. I have faith your wife will respond well when you give selflessly more and more. Else, you still gain by being "provided a different perspective towards life" in learning how to love.
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